The other day I was catching up with a girlfriend. And I don’t even know if catching up is what to call it, we talk at least once a day! We’ve known each other for years, and our conversations cover everything. Work challenges, politics, music, books, travelling . . anything and everything. The other day she said she’d been thinking about what makes a good friendship. She’s been noticing how easy it is to stay in certain friendships simply because they’ve been around forever, or even because it feels awkward to let them fade. But, as she’s been thinking about, longevity doesn’t necessarily equal quality. Do we stay because it’s easier?
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