What's your personal narrative . . and is it time to shatter it?


Hello, readers! I hope your week's going well. If you've been putting into practice anything from last week around eliminating negative self-talk, I would love to hear about it. Shoot me an email here! And if it's something you're still trying to figure out how to tackle, I'd love to chat with you.

Tying in with the idea of our self-talk, and as promised, this week I have such a special guest contributor, Stephanie Warren, who I'm so excited to introduce you to. Stephanie is a bridge-builder connecting people, ideas, and resources to inspire action. Through her weekly newsletter, BOLDideas, she explores topics that challenge conventional thinking and encourages readers to become BOLDER versions of themselves, offering practical tools to spark growth. I know you'll love what she has to share!

This article is about powerful, personal narratives. If you've seen Ted Lasso you'll know (and love!) Hannah Waddingham who plays the powerful and inspiring Rebecca. Want to know more?

Bethany Ward Life Coaching

I'm a Certified Life Coach and athlete, who loves to talk about personal development and work/life relationships. I help my clients embrace change with courage and determination. Subscribe to my newsletter to get helpful ways to improve mindset, and turn challenges into successes.

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